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This was a fun one it was a little touchy trying to write about my experiences without being salacious and I don’t think my mom is going to like reading it but I hope you enjoy 🫶
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Sep 8, 2024

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tater, you have a wonderful writing style!!! i enjoyed how you tied in the lana lyrics...
Sep 28, 2024
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unreliablenarrator thank you I’m so glad you enjoyed!!!! You might also like the newest episode of my podcast where we discuss some of these themes 😘
Sep 28, 2024
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taterhole hell yeah!!! will give it a listen now!
Sep 28, 2024
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i will be reading this during my post class feast
Sep 9, 2024
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staysexyhavefun ooh ENJOY I’m excited to hear your thoughts!!
Sep 9, 2024
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taterhole i really liked this tater. i felt as if i was reading my own thoughts and it can be taken as a universal girl experience. everything’s all pushed and marketed to the man’s fantasy and we don’t even realize how we fall into the trap when we’re so young. lana pushing such a shtick as a grown adult knowing her fans were/are high school girls is really gross. we never have each others back unfortunately. (we aka women, as the biggest issue between us is when ones ultimate desire for a man’s affection. realizing it is the only way to break out of the cycle.) as for addison she’s just the newest pawn. who knows if she knows it or not.
Sep 11, 2024
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staysexyhavefun thank you so much it means a lot to me to hear from you and other girls that it resonated with you and spoke to something that’s not necessarily talked about a lot 🥹❤️ I’m pretty resentful of Lana del Rey and Addison Rae feels like a new model that’s somehow almost more insidious with the lack of cynical melodramatic irony and packaging it in cutesy pop music instead 🤔
Sep 11, 2024
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taterhole oh i fully get it. i think it’s a vicious cycle too bc of greed. and it’s money coming from a gross place. being the face of something that doesn’t help other girls just sets us up to be objectified and encourages us to sexify ourselves while underage. it’s such a can of worms i could go on for decades lol
Sep 11, 2024
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staysexyhavefun agreed I think I meant to touch on this on the this episode of my podcast but we didn’t get into the Lana del Rey aspect of it specifically. but in a perfect world we would not have musicians like this it’s a totally selfish way to create ‘art’ That obviously impacts young women and girls and then totally absolve yourself of all responsibility because you’re ‘not a role model‘ lol 💔
Sep 11, 2024
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taterhole omg what’s the name of ur podcast?!?
Sep 12, 2024
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staysexyhavefun Gilded!! We have three episodes out so far and we’re releasing the next one this weekend 🫶
Sep 12, 2024
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taterhole love what you said about resentment in the comments here + I feel like it’s not an emotion we normalise feeling towards other woman but is so common and an important feeling
Sep 13, 2024
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senah you know what my therapist always said? Resentment is a feeling of self betrayal!!!!!!!
Sep 13, 2024
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dr hole!!! i absolutely loved this one, can't wait to read the next
Sep 9, 2024
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forevercherry yay thank you sweetheart!!!! 🥰
Sep 9, 2024
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DR. HOLE…YOU HAVE DONE IT AGAIN‼️‼️‼️
Sep 9, 2024
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nunjournal 🥹 I try Sister!!!
Sep 9, 2024
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your op-ed/essay-style of writing is absolutely beautiful!! dr. taterhole i implore you continue writing more– can't wait for the next one!
Sep 9, 2024
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verygoodvalentina THANK YOU ANGEL 💖 if you missed this one that’s not posted on my Substack you might enjoy it and I’m planning to start writing on a much more regular basis so stay tuned!!
Sep 9, 2024
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was transported back to listening to yayo like it was an instruction manual on the walk to school at 16…this was read with a couple knowing nods.
Sep 9, 2024
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deardoveswings BEST FEEDBACK thank you!!!! ❤️ I’m glad i was able to take you there
Sep 9, 2024
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“he threw away the gum he had been chewing, which I found to be somewhat repulsive, bovine and offensively odiferous (i believe the flavor was cinnamon).”
Sep 9, 2024
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first time reading any of ur work, i absolutely loved it!
Sep 9, 2024
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vampire oh thank you so much!!! 🥹🐣❤️❤️❤️ as a fellow gothic enthusiast you might enjoy my first post, Haunted, which is my version of a ghost story 👻
Sep 9, 2024
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taterhole ahhh i’ll read it rn
Sep 9, 2024
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Another 💯 tater
Sep 9, 2024
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mossyelfie thank you my dearest Elfie I’m so glad to hear you enjoyed!!!!!
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