Cause I get that you're built by your experiences and that really determines everything about you. But like at a certain point the foundation is built and life starts being about how you react to it. And the more you react, the more you perceive, the more you interract with the world the more you get to know yourself. It stops being about what and starts being about the why. You build your own perception and that can only evolve. And it all adds up to create this unique whole, full of not experiences but reasons. So the more alive you are the more yourself you become. It's beautiful!!