she has songs with vibes for every kind of heartbreak…
when you love them and they don’t love you back but you pretend they do: our lamp
you were more attached to the relationship than you thought: lonesome love; love me more
if you self-sabotaged (attachment issues?): a pearl; the only heartbreaker; should’ve been me; crack baby; i’m your man; circle; goodbye my danish sweetheart
when you stayed with them too long: me and my husband; jobless monday; a loving feeling; square
they said it was causal but you were in love: bag of bones; eric; strawberry blond; i want you
they were awful and you miss them: i don’t smoke
they were awful and you know you shouldn’t (or you don’t) miss them: drunk walk home; i bet on losing dogs; a burning hill; i love me after you
they cheated: there’s nothing left for you; wife
you really truly loved them: francis forever; once more to see you
you were both really in love and you both knew it would come to an end: two slow dancers; i guess; star
Aug 8, 2024
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I don't smoke, except for when I'm missing you
To remember your mouth, how it tasted true
And I don't smoke, except for after I've held you, baby
Being with you makes the flame burn good
So if you need to be mean, be mean to me
I can take it and put it inside of me
If your hands need to break more than trinkets in your room
You can lean on my arm as you break my heart
May 28, 2024
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i got dumped after a 4 month relationship and didn't get out of bed the first half of my junior year of high school. anyway he's hideous now. enjoy!
Bomb the Music Industry!- I Don't Love You Anymore
Destiny's Child- Survivor
Ben Folds Five- Song for the Dumped
The Mountain Goats- Woke Up New
Real Estate- Wonder Years
The Helio Sequence- Lately
Los Campesinos!- My Year in Lists
Gary Clark Jr.- Ain't Messin' 'Round
Britney Spears- Stronger
Dr. Dog- The Rabbit, the Bat & the Reindeer
Tom Petty & the Heartbreakers- Free Girl Now
Titus Andronicus- Fear and Loathing In Mahwah, NJ
Beyonce- Single Ladies (Put a Ring On It)
Akron/ Family- Another Sky
The Format- Dog Problems
Built to Spill- Joyride
Avril Lavigne- He Wasn't
Why?- Yo Yo Bye Bye
Tegan and Sara- Call It Off
Rilo Kiley- Breakin' Up
The Real Tuesday Weld- Last Words
R. Kelly- Ignition (Remix) (i made the editorial decision to keep this as to not do revisionist history)
Oct 27, 2024
Some great music here.
I tried to avoid most of the obvious/cliches.
Feedback from the brokenhearted, welcome.
thematichopscotch approved!
Aug 8, 2024
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being traditionally cool is really quite boring and iterative, and it’s actually very cool and sexy to geek out about something you like or share bits of knowledge on a topic you’re passionate about
Aug 17, 2024
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i had it for a little over a year until i was like wow this is actually terrible! i genuinely think it has negatively impacted society by ruining people’s attention spans, having a horrific algorithm, and most of all by the most mind-numbing or outright harmful trends -
fake words that people now use IRL (“unalive”), trad wife tiktok, shein hauls, body-focused fitness vids that encourage fatphobia and unhealthy habits, shallow political/feminist theory and queer discourse, “alpha male” podcaster tiktok, encouraging overconsumption in general, trends ruining local spots or niche things… the list goes on
Aug 17, 2024
a million times cooler than the lackluster “sleek” tech color palette used today
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