Rec | NOT IN THIS ECONOMY

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Rec'd on 🔄 is 23 considered old to start over?

I felt things were over at 22 after giving 4+ years to one company using a skill I learned. I was sad like all my good years were washed up by a 9-5. After I tried 3 different jobs it made me realize 'It's only just begun.' The feeling only came from maintaining health: nutritional, psychological, sleep, and physical. Otherwise, you'll always feel sort of behind/ahead. So I decided to go to school because I want security in a volatile market--sometimes YouTube University is not enough when applying. economy not only financially but as management of resources (and self)

@tabitha

Aug 7, 2024

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