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Join a club or take a class! It's funny how chatting with 9 people in real life & clicking with 1 person feels like such a win when I know if I talked to 8 people I don't click with online I would feel soul sucking failure. We're just animals, find a herd.
Jul 3, 2024

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I’d suggest volunteering or protesting! Finding likeminded buds to unite against class struggle is always great!
Jul 3, 2024
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ronen I almost went to a political rally the other day! Chickened out but NEXT TIMEEEEE
Jul 3, 2024

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Clubs don’t end after high school and/or college. Join local clubs that match your interests. I joined a local rec center tennis team, snowboarding in the winter, go ride biking trails. A lot of my activities I go to solo but so do so many other people. I’ve met so many wonderful people this way. Just be open to meeting and talking to new people! Also, volunteering! I know two friends personally who are in long-term relationships with people they met this way. I haven’t been looking to date but you easily could meet your other half by being more involved in your community.
May 16, 2024
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This is not a high quality rec because I'm not writing from current experience and may be completely missing the heart of the matter.
But: Our lives revolve around internet and digital and apps and using our devices to communicate, that is the normal default for everyone, but it really doesn't serve us well—my opinion—when trying to spark friendships, deepen relationships, and find love.
My rec is to seek out spaces and groups where people gather and build community. And I honestly don't even know what that is. But there are probably interest groups or clubs—like a running club, if doable—or a volunteer projects where you'll start to rub shoulders with people who share interests and values.
Nov 11, 2024
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I think mutual activities helps in that regard. Before the internet it was always real life. After there's a lot of hobbies and activities we can do in a room sharing a digital space with others. Take a class doing something you'd like. Join a club of some sort that would interest you even without other people, like a book club or running. Anything really. Play D&D?! Want to? All of these will have their sharks, guppies, good folk, and weird yuppies. But reading other people's intentions becomes easier the more you experience being around others. Be honest with yourself. Be honest with others. Stay safe.
Jun 19, 2025

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Save literally everything, hoard trash. Cut it up and glue it into a book, YOUR BOOK. next time make the book from scratch yourself. it's beautiful. It's fulfilling. FINALLY a place to put all of those stickers you stroke longing in the store only to put back because "I would never use them" --- now you can use all of them. USE ALL OF THEM STICK THEM ALL OVER EVERYTHING THIS IS MAXIMALISM BABAY
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and my neighbourhood group is full of photos of them walking around the neighbourhood having a nice time
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