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im too busy to be in a relationship right now so i’ve been going on solo dates and i love it soo much i just read and enjoy a drink & great meal 😌 it’s a splurge but worth it!!! the book i’m reading is a decolonial feminism and this month i went to a restaurant that only serves sustainable seafood (normally i don’t have fish bc of enviro impact so this was cool! sadly tho they did not give me a paper straw option)
Jun 30, 2024
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i love taking myself out for dinner. im an extrovert, so i truly love spending time with people, but if i don’t take intentional time with myself i’ll lose track of my own thoughts and creativity. at least once a month i schedule a dinner with just me. i usually bring a book, could be a novel or an art book. i always have my journal on me, so i take the time to reflect on the last month of life. i get to just have a conversation with my own thoughts. i always finish my meal inspired and ready to move forward.
Apr 8, 2025
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I love going out to eat by myself. Especially when it feels like an occassion vs. shoveling some fast casual down during lunch hours. Brunch, candle lit dinners, etc.
Dec 11, 2023
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I know, I know, everybody knows that already! But for the first time in my life, I just went to a restaurant alone and that fucking slaps! I can look on my phone without feeling guilty, order what I want without feeling weird to be the only one ordering a soup in advance and I don’t have to talk to anyone. I just vibe and eat and look around on a Thursday afternoon. That’s the fucking dream!
Dec 19, 2024
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being traditionally cool is really quite boring and iterative, and it’s actually very cool and sexy to geek out about something you like or share bits of knowledge on a topic you’re passionate about
Aug 17, 2024
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i had it for a little over a year until i was like wow this is actually terrible! i genuinely think it has negatively impacted society by ruining people’s attention spans, having a horrific algorithm, and most of all by the most mind-numbing or outright harmful trends -
fake words that people now use IRL (“unalive”), trad wife tiktok, shein hauls, body-focused fitness vids that encourage fatphobia and unhealthy habits, shallow political/feminist theory and queer discourse, “alpha male” podcaster tiktok, encouraging overconsumption in general, trends ruining local spots or niche things… the list goes on
Aug 17, 2024
a million times cooler than the lackluster “sleek” tech color palette used today
Feb 22, 2025