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Most people were doing the best with what they had.
(exceptions for true abusers ofc)
Jun 22, 2024
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#notmyproblem
Feb 1, 2024
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sad girl aesthetics are overrated.
Jan 29, 2024
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thoroughly planning a breakup so that you end that chapter with empathy and understanding instead of with anger and resentment in the heat of emotions. makes moving on and forward in life so much easier.
now also have a best friend who has seen me at my lowest and with whom i can share most every experience without judgement.
only applicable if this individual is healthy enough to keep in ur life.
Dec 3, 2024
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Everything is cyclical and you’ll have your eras when you feel evolved, self-assured, like you’ve “figured it out” and then suddenly everything will feel confusing and uncertain. Then you’ll cycle back. And this will happen through most of your life. And it’s happening to everyone you’re jealous of.
Your time will come around, just ride the wave bb 😎 🏄♂️🤙🏼
Jul 11, 2024
nothing makes me happier than receiving bespoke reactions from my pals in the group chat
Nov 17, 2024
This is kind of an anti-rec, more of a PSA.
If you haven’t heard of the marketing research company WGSN it’s worth a deep dive.
Horrifying to see that years ago, a marketing research company predicted that we’d all be into 90s and early 2000s nostalgia, nihilism, and awe/whimsy.
The scarier part, for me, is how companies that work with these firms will prey upon individuals’ sincere interests and perspectives. Some unpaid intern from WGSN is def monitoring this app lol.
I wrestle with that competing understandings that a zeitgeist will always exist; that the transmission of preferences/ideas between people is how culture is made, with also not wanting to be unconsciously influenced by a predatory system whose only goal is to make me feel like I’m less than and therefore push me to consume.
Sry I’m super red pilled this morning lol.
Jul 10, 2024