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if someone's all turned around about you enough that they lead with a confession of love instead of, like, a regular flirtation, you can let them down easy and say you still wanna be friends, but it's up to them to get over it, with time. not much in your power there.
Jun 7, 2024
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i feel like there’s such an all or nothing culture around friendship these days — what it really comes down to is: do you feel comfortable continuing to have this person in your life? is it always going to be nagging at the back of your mind that they might not respect u/ur relationship? you don’t have to make a decision right now! but going forward it’s something to keep in mind — if I were you I might not trust this person with vulnerable information, I would be less emotionally invested in them, and I would be extra skeptical of their words/actions. but maybe they’re still fun to hang out with sometimes; I don’t think that’s a crime. although I would def keep them away from boyfriend. does it mean you never have to speak to them again? no — unless you find yourself worrying about it and resenting them! in that case you’re totally justified to move on with your life without them in it. ultimately I think boyfriend should say to (sober) friend hey that was super uncool and don’t do that again. it shouldn’t be your responsibility to deal with this. idk tho that’s just my onion 💯
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you’ve not got much to lose except potentially the hope of being friends again if they don’t reply (not that that would make it like not possible but if they don’t reply after not replying last time it might be best to accept the loss because you’ll only make yourself more upset if you keep trying with nothing back)
seems like you really miss them so i think you should reach out and be sincere about your feelings and hopefully they’ll respond
May 24, 2025
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