i’ve been struggling with this lately too but what helps me is just going with my first instinct of what i wanna do when faced with different options. don’t overthink if it’s the best one, just go with what ur brain latched onto first bc it’s probably for good reason
May 9, 2024
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i big big big hate making decisions and stress that whatever i pick will be the wrong choice, but i have found that the more i decide internally to just commit to whichever choice, i try to let go and let the universe take it from there. until time travel is invented, no one can go back in time and change their decisions so there is no point in considering what another option would have been like. it's just an exercise in misery that is best avoided. do what feels good and don't look back.
Oct 22, 2024
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I will get an idea to go somewhere, do something, reach out to someone, and flip flop for ages on whether or not to do it, weighing all pros and cons.. I try now to just decide yes if I’m flip flopping and usually it goes great!
May 22, 2025
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…however, sometimes waiting and NOT making an impulsive decision is actually the best decision.
I procrastinate which can sometimes be troublesome, but it also allows me the full amount of time to weigh all the options. Discovery can still happen at anytime. I want all the facts before deciding.
May 30, 2025
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i want to invest myself in learning how to make good food and be able to share that with others. i was thinking about how sad it is that cooking is a hobby that produces perishable work. it doesn’t last forever and eventually i will have nothing to show for what i’ve done. but i think the fact that food is fleeting reflects how nothing in life lasts and everything is always changing; we can only appreciate what we have in the present and i think food brings us back to that notion. whether it’s sharing a meal at home with ur parents or catching up with a friend over lunch or enjoying a new cafe on ur own, food is meant to bring ur mind to the current moment in that u are tasting, seeing, smelling, and interacting with the item before u. to be able to offer that to my loved ones and also share that experience with them is a privilege, even if it is short-lived.
Apr 17, 2024
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to me it’s not the weirdest thing but it took me years to muster the courage in eating a duck embryo
May 9, 2024
i haven’t watched anything else by this youtuber but this is prob one of my favorite video essays i’ve watched. could not thinking ab it afterwards
Apr 16, 2024