• museums
• picnic with a book or art project
• bird watching hikes
• book talks + educational panels (yay learning!)
• reading or writing at a cafe outside
• the movies ofc
Apr 28, 2024
Related Recs
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make sure you do something that will keep you busy, cafes and parks are cute and fun only if you’re journaling or reading. my top recs:
- galleries
-cinema
-ice skating/roller skating
-swimming
Apr 28, 2024
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there are two types of solo dates i go on:
one, where i sit with myself like at a restaurant/cafe i wanted to try or a movie i really wanted to see to enjoy it how i want to
or two, where i surround myself with a new community so i feel less alone but I AM alone bc no one knows me
options for one: movies, cafe/restaurant, library, thrifting, doing art outside, spa day, making a new meal at home, getting a sweet treat
options for two: cooking classes, gym/zoomba classes, book clubs, pottery, hiking groups, escape rooms
these are off the top of my head but enjoy yourself love there’s no one better to have fun with than yourself !
Apr 28, 2024
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Run errands together! Do long rides around the city! Go on picnics and hang out all day! There's too much focus on solo relationships in society, when smaller interactions with different people can help you re-balance that need to socialise.
Apr 24, 2024
Top Recs from @marxinista
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being traditionally cool is really quite boring and iterative, and it’s actually very cool and sexy to geek out about something you like or share bits of knowledge on a topic you’re passionate about
Aug 17, 2024
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i had it for a little over a year until i was like wow this is actually terrible! i genuinely think it has negatively impacted society by ruining people’s attention spans, having a horrific algorithm, and most of all by the most mind-numbing or outright harmful trends -
fake words that people now use IRL (“unalive”), trad wife tiktok, shein hauls, body-focused fitness vids that encourage fatphobia and unhealthy habits, shallow political/feminist theory and queer discourse, “alpha male” podcaster tiktok, encouraging overconsumption in general, trends ruining local spots or niche things… the list goes on
Aug 17, 2024
a million times cooler than the lackluster “sleek” tech color palette used today
Feb 22, 2025