a girl from my school started dm-ing me on insta and since it was pretty tame stuff (like literally no signs she was into me) I was sure that she just wanted to be friends with me. she seemed pretty cool so I dm-ed her back and we talked for a couple days before she asked me if I wanted to catch a movie with her. I said yes. what was the movie you ask?
all of us strangers.
by that point, I was still somehow clueless. we met up, she hugged me, we walked to the theatre, we got snacks, we sat down, we watched the movie, it was all pretty normal friendly stuff. I even ended up crying (to be fair I'm not sure who wouldn't cry at that movie).
it was only after the fact that I was informed by our mutual friend that she was apparently into me and that was supposed to be a date. I ended up just asking to be friends and we haven't spoken since :,)
Apr 27, 2024
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i was going on a first date to some bar and i walked in, scanned the place and was like ok there he is and so i walked over to him and was like hey how are you?!! im sydney :) and he looked at me like i was truly insane and then it hit me…….he was not the right guy and so i just had to shamefully find my guy and then tell him what just happened to me
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TLDR: fine shit tried flirting with me, I ended up engaging In the world’s most awkward hug and talking about queues for 10 minutes.
My love life has been drier than the Sahara desert for the last year now. I was at a bar last week and was queuing for the karaoke I didn’t realise the girl in front of me was queuing I thought she was talking to the DJ so I unintentionally cut in front of her to the sign up sheet, she makes a comment about it I apologise and tell her she can go ahead. She comes over to me about 10 minutes later I can’t hear a word she’s saying but I thought she was talking about the queue still so I kept on saying ‘don’t worry about it, it’s not that big of a deal, we’ll just move on from it’. only after telling a housemate about this they said are you sure she wasn’t calling you cute, to which I realised she could’ve been flirting with me.
Which probably explains why she hugged me, I wasn’t expecting it so I kinda went into the hug half heartedly and ended up patting her on the back. If I was that girl I would leave because of how fucking awkward that was. She didn’t kept talking to me and asking questions about me. I think I can’t hear her still and all I hear is what is your name, I reply and I didn’t hear what she said. she keeps speaking and now I can actually hear her she says i’m gonna go back to my mates now but good luck with the karaoke to which i responded thanks you’ll be great as well I hope and we go our separate ways.
Only after leaving the bar I start to connect the dots and think huh that was a little odd she was really passionate about that queue. If you are that girl reading this I can only apologise
May 9, 2025
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it was the second. he bought us tickets to see parasite and was sooo excited that the amc seats reclined. it's literally why he chose that movie theater.
he even double-checked with the ticket girl that our theater would have reclining seats.
she told him the theater number had changed, and we no longer had those types of seats. he was heart broken and angry. we found our seats, put our stuff down, and then he said he was going to go back and ask the ticket girl why we no longer had the reclining seats theater. i did not join him.
then he answered his phone in the MIDDLE of the movie and talked for a few. it clearly wasn't an emergency. he even left for a few minutes to keep talking on the phone outside of the theater. when he came back, all he said was "what did i miss?" he never apologized for it.
i should have left when he took the call but alas i still got dinner with him after
Feb 19, 2024
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