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i see the letters and hear the sounds in my head but for some reason i just ignore saying it
Apr 26, 2024
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May 23, 2025
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🕶anytime i say something a bit stupid and someone goes "what was that eilidh, come again?" and i don't want to repeat it because i have now heard it out loud and don't care for the sentence, i simply say "sorry that was an inside thought that managed to escape don't you worry"
works a charm
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I will ramble nonsense sometimes and say ‘u know whaddaimsayin’ alot and people will nod. and not, in fact, know whaddaimsayin. might as well say you love me and then turn away.
Jul 4, 2025
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😃I was never taught how to handle money and that how i ended up here. Teaching myself as i go so i thought i'd document my findings.
Money is such an easy concept. Very few technicalities but that's it. My reason for deciding to want to know how to handle money is solely because i don't have stuff. I realized that even the simplest most basic stuff i don't own.
I don't have alot so i assume i should just spend it all without any planning. If i'm not careful i might end up doing the same even when i do get alot. So like any normal person i went online and typed in finances. MMFs, investments, REITs e.t.c
After binging videos on youtube i settled on the 50/30/20 rule. Where 50% is bills 30% is savings 20% is whatever tf i want as long as it doesn't exceed the set 20%.
When i said i dont have stuff. I mean my clothes are from 10 yrs ago that i don't even like anymore. I don't have nice shoes. I can't even set aside a few coins to get the cheapest hairstyle. By stuff i don't mean luxurious wants, i mean the most basic needs.
Because of this i've never truly felt that sense of independence. I have had this rule going on for a while now. I realised it gave me a sense confidence i have never experienced before. I am by no means a millionare, but i am proud i can manage the little i have.
I do slip. Spend more than i should, or use money i set aside for one thing to do something else.
But at least now i have a system in place that i go back to.
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😃I have always had a fear of destroying my skin by applying stuff on it that i don't really need. Inherited hormonal acne and you'd think the fear would go away.Most of the people i know my age who have suffered skin issues particularly acne always end up on a skin experimental journey of sorts.
I admit i did fall victim to tret and clozole-B. Solely because of the promise of clear skin.No clear understanding of what i was putting on my skin. Even then something felt off about it. Now determined to care for my skin, i have done some research and still continue to. This is what i have found so far.
My type of acne is hormonal. My forehead for the most part is clear. My cheeks, jawline and chin suffers the most. I also previously thought that i had oily skin. Turns out i just have combination skin. An oily T-zone and dry to normal cheeks. My skin barrier suffered some damage from the use of actives, lack of moisturizer and not wearing sunscreen.
To aid my skin barrier in the healing process i need to simplify my skin care routine and thoroughly understand products and their ingredients. I settled for a moisturizing cleanser that doesn't contain alcohol( it dries out the skin), a good moisturizer that contains ceramides and a sunscreen. I use a chemical sunscreen. La Roche possay works for me because it is light weight and doesn't leave a white cast on top of having good coverage.
I plan on having weekly or bi weekly steaming sessions. Maybe later incorporate sheet masks. I got an alcohol free toner for hydration. I only wash my face at night, do my skin care way before bed to minimize leaving all the product on my pillow. I apply just sunscreen in the morning and re apply when i get off work.
My skin seems to be loving this. I should mention that i started using this products one by one so that i can tell which one doesn't work. This is too long. I'll update later.
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😃DOES ANYONE KNOW HOW TO STOP HAVING A FEAR OF BEING PERCEIVED. I GET REALLY AWKWARD BECAUSE OF THIS. I DON'T KNOW HOW TO GO ABOUT IT.