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Love how my roommates/bffs and I now sort of have a secret language, a specific lingo if you will. I read an article about how small groups/communities start to unknowingly build their own specific “societies”/cultures through just being together so often. I love how that just happens naturally; connection is what we are all here/made for! I also like seeing others’ friendship ecosystems it is so cute and cool!!
Apr 6, 2024
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I love basing my friendships around things I like to do, and having an allocated person to do that with, also having a process / routine that this thing happens around. Like a tiny religious procession of two.
E.g. : one friend is my coffee and a walk friend, another is a person I only exclusively hang out with to eat tacos once a month, a third friend to only go to cinema screenings with, another friend will join me for exercise classes and we usually get dinner afterwards.
I like this approach to friendship in general because it’s less pressure to have to come up with new things to do, and if you stagger time well then you always have things to do and people to see.
Aug 20, 2024
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like cmon there are few things more beautiful than new friendships blossoming
so what are you waiting for? next time you hang with your besties, invite that new friend you made recently. we love building community here!!!
Mar 9, 2024
i love how community building tea time is. every once in a while all my neighbors will get together and we’ll all bring sweets and mugs and we’ll sit together and catch up. it’s fun because neighbors are a more random bunch than any sort of pre formed friend group. so the stories and perspectives you hear are outside the scope of what you're used to.
Jan 21, 2025
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i have a nice spot on campus under an arched outdoor hallway where i eat my food truck meals in between classes. its lovely in sunny weather but also a nice shelter in the rain or snow. i also enjoy the seclusion it provides, since i do not like to be seen eating by strangers. basically it's a choice and a necessary precaution.
Jan 24, 2024
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lovehim he silly .
Jan 26, 2024
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my dad who is an obsessive audiophile gifted me nice big speakers for my apartment and now all i want to do is listen to my favorite tunes in the living room. i understand why my dad spends all his time in his sound room now. my roommates also love it and now we can rival the speakers of the frat boys who live below us.
Jan 24, 2024