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This relatively short, super accessible book was a game changer for my relationship with my mom. It’s hard to let go of the belief that one day an immature parent(s) will radically change in the ways we wish they would (not impossible but well near it). This book provides guidance for setting realistic expectations and managing your relationship without having to throw it away entirely. Do not judge this book by its hideous cover — it’s so, so valuable.
Apr 6, 2024

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Omg I had it out, weird blue-gray stick figures and all, when my parents came to visit. Fortunately my gf did a sneaky pick-up since that would’ve been disaster.
Apr 6, 2024
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tortitude The way that would wreck all your progress 😅
Apr 6, 2024
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This one and Children of the Self-Absorbed are so good lol
Apr 6, 2024
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taterhole I need to read that one!
Apr 6, 2024
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leen it has a lot of really useful and insightful workbook-style prompts!!!
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