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to cultivate the mystery and make people wonder about your rich inner life
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if you can, try to be a real loose cannon. Nothing out of control, but like maybe a little scary if you didn’t know better.
Feb 7, 2024
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It’s okay to filter parts of yourself at work—just like how we share different sides of ourselves in different settings. I don’t think of it as being inauthentic, but more like adapting to the context of a professional environment. At work, I focus on being polite, helpful, and putting people at ease. I listen more than I initiate, and I keep conversations light or work-focused unless someone else opens up. That doesn’t mean I’m hiding who I am—just choosing what parts to share.
If it feels like your coworkers aren’t vibing with you, there’s no harm in talking less and letting things flow naturally. Sometimes workplaces like this can feel social because you spend so much time together, but you’re not obligated to entertain people. Focusing on the work itself can be a relief and might even give others time to get to know you more gradually.
Dec 17, 2024
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We tend to mask ourselves in order to make others comfortable and fit in. Just be weird and shit, who cares…
Feb 22, 2024
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I have been smiling today remembering my grade 2 teacher needing to explicitly ban the class from finishing our stories this way
Feb 9, 2024