e.g. patheticness = patheticism, kindness = kindism makes the qualities of things more like systems of intentional behavior or belief.... not essential traits or conditions that are inherent and cannot be transcended
an unfortunate necessity. incredibly overrated, though to deny it would be ignorance. the best and only way to deal with this fact of life is to spin it into an optimistic thing, which i absoloutely reccomend you do
