When did it become universally acceptable to promote dread in your children? Boooooo ! That’s loser behavior, time inherently promises you bad AND GOOD times. You could say so many things, but instead you put your self loathing about your life onto your children. Stop doing that !
I get it sometimes, but at some point especially if I’m providing, you have to be honest and a little more mature about it, you can’t have everything all the time! the enjoyment principle is actually bad sometimes!