two pairs of dress socks...
an old jewish men tee shirt
and a Brooks Brothers tux for $60. not my favorite, but good enough while I take my time and get something made bespoke.
I usually start at depop or poshmark (bc these outfits are often only worn once, ppl love to resell them).
If you need a specific color there are a million sites w/ expansive color swatches and affordable options (lulus, aw bridal, etc).
they're just some guy. but they're also cute and nice and make u feel admired and don't judge u for all the things u judge urself for. u can show them all your favorite things and learn all of theirs and also u can kiss them