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because doing more than a little bit is stressful, but it's nice to start getting an idea of just how much money you're spending in a month...
Feb 29, 2024
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assuming you haven't already done this. i just put mine in a spreadsheet. i include figures for "investing" and "saving" then just put an amount i know i can afford every month. just make the budget and stick to it. if you find you can't stick to the budget then maybe examine your spending habits and see if there's anything you can do without buying.
Dec 1, 2024
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Start by tracking your income and expenses to understand where your money goes. Setting up a budget allows you to see your monthly spending and identify areas where you can cut back.
Jun 8, 2024
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1. I tracked every single thing I spent for a few months to get an idea of what my budget should be and where I can cut back.
2. I set up an auto transfer once a month into a HYSA and another one into an IRA, based on the budget from step 1. They are not huge amounts by any means, and sometimes it feels futile. But it keeps the money out of my checking and hopefully in time I'll be able to start saving more.
3. Anything I really like and want to buy I add to a Pinterest board as my wish list. I tell myself I can come back later and buy it if I really want it. I probably end up buying 1 out of every 50 things I put there. It's also humbling to look back it and see things on the list that I don't like anymore. Good thing I don't own them!
Dec 1, 2024
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sincerity is cool, caring is cool, you are all cool
Feb 28, 2024
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the first thing to be said is that this recommendation applies equally to everyone
the next thing to be said is that you have, inevitably, been suffering from a cocktail of depression and anxiety for more than a decade, and this has made you incredibly tired
what you need is to make NYE plans with a good friend you haven't seen in years; she will bring you out to the club and it will be fuckin rad; you'll buy some cute clothes and she'll do your makeup, despite these not being things you really ever do, and you'll forget how much you typically disdain your appearance for one night
next, you're going to have to just read for awhile, books and essays and youtube comments and text messages
after enough reading, you'll have your own thoughts and questions, and you'll inevitably see someone else asking the question "am i trans?"
reading this question will naturally lead to you asking yourself: "am i trans?"
the answer is yes
at this point, you have transitioned into a girl, and everything else is just showing off; decide on a new name; get a therapist and a doctor who are supportive; pump your body full of the hormones it needs; get some cute new clothes and burn your old shit; ask for help picking out and doing your makeup
stop treating your body like a shipping container for your sad brain; transform it into the hot girl your brain already knows you are
Feb 28, 2024
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