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one of the key indicators that i'm not doing well is that i'll start responding less to when people outside of my close friend group message me. and i dont think i wouldve understood this about myself if i was a teenager. idk im much more aware abt these things which makes it sometimes easier to navigate
Feb 20, 2024
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keep on realizing that im no longer a teenager.
like i haven’t been a teenager for years now but im fr not a teenager anymore.
Feb 22, 2024
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I feel like middle aged or older adults have such a good sense of themselves, at least from an outside perspective. Everyone I know from family to co-worker to teacher who is within this age range is so easy to describe. Their characteristics are easy to point out and their personality is very clear. I feel like this isn't as true for young adults and teens and especially not for kids. Maybe it's because we're open to changing ourselves more and definition hinders our ability to grow. I feel like this is obvious but an observation non the less.
May 12, 2025
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im not a teen anymore and its cool actually
Feb 5, 2024
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i rlly like looking at sewer drains
Feb 7, 2024
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u gotta just show up at the same places consistently. if someone sees u at a place long enough they'll either end up talking to u or u'll talk to them by virtue of just occupying the space. this can apply to almost anything so like the gym, dance classes, art studios, cafes, bars, clubs, book clubs, town hall meetings, etc
personally, ive been going to the same rock climbing gym and even though i suck at it (and im really really bad at it) ive met a couple of rlly cool ppl from there. but yeah its much easier said than done, bc life can get in the way of that consistency. but if u rlly try at it i think u can meet some cool folks.
Mar 16, 2024
friend wanted to rummage through my pony beads so i let her and now she made a cute bag charm. idk just a really cute thing that ended up happening
Feb 5, 2024