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once I started doing what I wanted to do instead of trying to keep up appearances I was set free. It feels so much better to not overdo it and makes me enjoy going out even more.
Some of my favorite nights have been ones where I go to a show, dance, get hammered with my friends and then leave before everyone, walk around the city and sit in a burger place drenched in sweat on my own for an hour.
stay tuned for my alternative recommendation of "Staying later and being glad that you did"
Feb 18, 2024
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🚶i've regularly stayed out hours later than i wanted to and regretted it the next day. i don't really know what even keeps me out, it's like the "what if" feeling that something amazing might happen at 4am but it usually doesn't. last night i told myself that no matter what i would walk home at 1:30 and then i did and it felt so nice
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went to a rly fun function last night. 12-6am party to celebrate both a local DJs’ bday and the closing of a beloved venue.
Had a lot of fun, but I remember watching the linked Hitomi video where she takes a break amidst a circle of friends, and doesn’t shame her desire to rest while the social world moves around her.
I left around 2:30 as planned, didn’t drink at all and just smoked and had a good time. knowing your body and mind takes time: I’m a lover of dance, music and good energy, but in the late lutuel phase of my menstrual cycle imma need more unparalleled quiet time. I grew up feeling soooo much FOMO (side effect of a strict household) but now I’m a functioning, self-loving adult who loves to party and loves to snuggle into her sheets while the party rages on.
Had a lot of fun, but I remember watching the linked Hitomi video where she takes a break amidst a circle of friends, and doesn’t shame her desire to rest while the social world moves around her.
I left around 2:30 as planned, didn’t drink at all and just smoked and had a good time. knowing your body and mind takes time: I’m a lover of dance, music and good energy, but in the late lutuel phase of my menstrual cycle imma need more unparalleled quiet time. I grew up feeling soooo much FOMO (side effect of a strict household) but now I’m a functioning, self-loving adult who loves to party and loves to snuggle into her sheets while the party rages on.
Jun 29, 2025
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went into the city for a dance night, ended up last minute getting the tiniest, nicest hotel room ever instead of driving hours back home, left the club after exactly One hour so we could go drink for cheaper, and then walked around the city on shrooms🫶. big shoutout to the girl behind me at the event who was too drunk to exist and kept putting her hands in my hair, you are genuinely so blessed And lucky that i didnt turn around and mollywhop you 🩷
Jul 19, 2025
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How did this become a standardized measurement tool? it has such an emotional aura…
Mar 5, 2024
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đź’ŚI love hand-writing a letter. the delayed gratification of it, talking about anything and nothing, decorating it with cartoons and drawings and stickers. Sending little extras and photographs with tiny micro-playlists scrawled out on the back of it. It takes at least an hour to craft a good letter, one worth receiving and replying to, and it's intimate to think about someone nonstop for that long. I just love that form of communication.
Mar 4, 2024
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⚠️As pi.fyi gains popularity I notice more and more people using it like twitter/trying to hit an algorithm/”tweetdecking” recs/memeing
so incongruent to me because pi truly feels like a place of respite from all the aforementioned internet behavior. using it to identify and share small joys from your day, talk about things you want more of in your life, share about yourself, explore things you’re curious about … I promise that’s “good content”. 🫶
so incongruent to me because pi truly feels like a place of respite from all the aforementioned internet behavior. using it to identify and share small joys from your day, talk about things you want more of in your life, share about yourself, explore things you’re curious about … I promise that’s “good content”. 🫶
Mar 7, 2024