Recently I had something bother me so badly it was even affecting my sleep. I reached out to the person who it involved and we talked about it. It was a difficult conversation, I slept great that night. Unburdening yourself is hard, and necessary.
I got into going dancing probably two and a half years ago with my friends girlfriend at the time and met a ton of fun people that are so easy going and just having fun. let the pretention go shake ass, have fun!