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especially when u stay places other than ur house. looks pretty, claims some space 4 urself, keeps all ur things in 1 place. a very new & very permanent habit of mine…… plus it wards off ghosts. booyah
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It’s very vain, but if I don’t like the way I look when I wake up in the morning I might not get out the house. I hate waking up in the morning and feeling like absolutely naked. If you have a few pieces of solid jewelry that you can sleep in I feel like it really alleviates that feeling. My recs based on myself are a permanently soldered bracelet, a bangle on each wrist, small hoops or sleepers and a daeth piercing. Anklets can be good too if they are solid!
Jan 23, 2024
I really like to buy myself some jewellery when I’ve got through something tough or made myself especially proud — you don’t need excuse to buy yourself a tiny piece of glittered armour but there’s something special about looking down at your hands and seeing those moment reflects back at you
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Feb 1, 2024
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romanticise ur blunders & ur missteps, bc that is just part of being a creature. if u saw a duckling fall flat on its face and scramble 2 its feet u wouldn't judge the freakin duckling, u would think it was the cutest thing ever. because it is. we r just organisms in big ungainly bodies, and that is part of our charm. tripping over ur own feet is maybe the most adorable thing u can do. like awwhh u tripped on the pavement </333
this extends 2 social interactions 2. messaging exes that u miss them, making a joke that doesn't land, mishearing/not knowing/forgetting something, etc??!!?! SO SWEET. genuinely such wonderful & important & adorable things 2 do.
i think this is maybe the best thing i've ever managed 2 train my brain 2 do. it isn't foolproof but it makes life a lot gentler.
Feb 5, 2024
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just about everything that happens to you will be interesting to your future self/your descendants/archaeologists. immortalise your to do lists, shopping lists, packing lists, things that loved ones say, things that strangers say, the phrases you hear that would make a good band name. brainstorm what to do on the weekend, list your cravings, the songs stuck in your head, transcribe birdsong, etc. i track my periods & my finances in my journal. sometimes if i really want to take a photo of something i'll restrain myself and draw it in my journal instead. sometimes i take notes for uni in there, or draft sewing patterns, or sketch when im bored. journals are self-portraits!!!!!!!
Apr 21, 2024