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Whenever I start a new course or I meet new people, I pretend I’m this super confident guy and goodness it helps my social anxiety disappear so fast.
Feb 4, 2024
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i am not confident but sometimes i pretend like i am and everything gets dramatically better
Dec 16, 2024
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I relate so much to your plight!! Being confident is genuinely so difficult, but everyday is a chance to practice.
Something I do? Play pretend.
Listening to music that pumps me up and wearing an outfit I like usually helps, but the rest is all an elaborate disguise. At first I thought it was delusional for me to think I’m hot shit, and it felt silly to even pretend like it was true. Recently, I’ve actually started to believe it, and I think normalizing that thought in my head through pretending really helped.
Jan 19, 2025
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It feels good in the short term to talk about all the doubt, dread, hopelessness I feel.
But by presenting positivity and confidence:
~ Others are happier in my company
~ I are surrounded by positive people
~ I have positive interactions with people
~ I find myself in rewarding situations
Really is that simple
6d ago
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It just isn’t.
Feb 6, 2024
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Don’t overthink and just start, who cares if you’re cringe or unsuccessful, just be consistent and follow your heart.
Feb 4, 2024
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Because why not? (this is what habbo and club penguin taught me btw)
Feb 5, 2024