Rec | BAR THERAPY

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getting plastered at bars and giving older men advice on how to function. this sounds like its a joke but im being serious. its a little wholesome, a little funny, and you both walk away knowing something maybe you wish you didn't.

@starfu3ker

Feb 2, 2024

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