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I used to be a serious hater and socially anxious. Now I can smile at strangers or make friendly small talk in an elevator and i feel so much happier. Took me 33 years but new skill unlocked?
Feb 1, 2024
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It’s nice to remember that the world is brimming with kind people. I by no means have lengthy conversations with them, but even a joke or an observation to the store attendant makes me feel like I am the sort of person who is casual about things. It’s fun and reminds me to get outside my (sometimes claustrophobic) bubble.
Jan 15, 2025
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I’ve always had struggles starting/maintaining conversations, so when I was in college, I would find something to compliment a stranger on (typically a cashier or someone I had to talk to) because I remembered how good I felt when I unexpectedly got a compliment from someone. When I myself became a cashier at a coffee shop, it was a really nice way to make someone feel good if they looked bored or upset. It also helps with awkward silences. I still do it when I can or when the situation calls for it, and it’s so nice to see people react and smile.
Feb 24, 2025
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I usually get very shy and nervous to say hi to people I run into that I know. My go-to move is to ignore people and pretend I didn’t see them.
I just ran into people I went to college with and it was a little awkward. However I’m proud of myself for saying hello and being excited. I was happy to see them and I’m glad to see a positive change in myself and how I interact with people.
Dec 1, 2024
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Jan 9, 2025
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it's a small sketchbook with a survey of questions I ask everyone who comes over. Each person gets their own page to answer the questions and are required to draw a self portrait with it. People love doing it because everyone gets a spotlight moment, it generates conversation, and I get a fun memento
Feb 2, 2024
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I get embarrassed very easily. I find being a human being embarrassing. But I recently determined that being embarrassed is a choice I make, and I can choose not to be it. Wave at someone who was actually waving at the person behind you? Just pretend you never found that out and you feel nothing. Who cares.
Feb 4, 2024