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spur of the moment Phone calls

I miss the rotary phone and the allure of not knowing who was calling. I also love hearing people react to something and sometimes I cannot be bothered to look at my face in the FaceTime window!! To best replicate that I love calling someone out of the blue to say hi!!! in order to best delve into calling it’s important to increase the volume and frequency of calls in the first few months so that you don’t stress anyone out with fear of bad news. once that’s all through you’re in business girlypop! The other day I called someone and we chatted for 40 mins just telling stories and giggling and this is what life is about I’d say!!!

@gabobinson

Feb 13, 2024

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cold calling your friends

two friends called me out of the blue today and it made me so happy 🥹

@sluglandia

Apr 23, 2025

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Cold calling

call a friend out of the blue no plan no warning no texting before just let it rip (ring). an absolute thrill when they pick up!!! what are the odds!!!

@cw

Jan 31, 2024

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dancing is the medicine

dancing

a study issued last month found that dancing is the most effective way of treating and mitigating depression. Walking, therapy, and yoga also outpaced SSRIs. and if you're saying 'oh this was probably funded by Big Dance', there's no evidence of that and if you're saying 'that's just what a Big Dance shill would say', well honey you're right

@Shadowbeni

Mar 4, 2024

@meldotcom

Apr 1, 2024

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ya’ll got nieces and nephews? (niblings, if you will)

Hang out with those suckers, it’s so fun. I was sad today then I watched my nephew eat jell-o for the first time now i’m fine.

@meldotcom

Mar 18, 2024

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the right people will appreciate your boldness in initiating a first hang

And then when you’ve made a few random connections this way (and there’s not some blaring reason why they’d hate each other) invite them all for a park hang or lil dinner, even if it seems sorta early in the friendships! Being the person that brings other people together can make you feel and come off more well connected than you might feel, and before ya know it, you’ve started a friend group! You’re gonna do great, honey! People like ya!

@meldotcom

Mar 11, 2024