I often find myself forcibly listening to people I'm talking to just because I want to get out what I want to say.
But I've recently been learning how much I can learn by just shutting up and listening intently to others talk.
Sometimes me and my bf do what we call ”old timey night” and we play records and put our phones away and light candles and talk and lay on the floor and it feels so restorative Everyone should give old timey night a shot