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after my super scientific research of going to every single branch of the nypl this is the best. it’s in the main schwarzman branch but you have to walk through another room to get to it + you need a library card (you just have to ask and they’ll sign you up for one!!). also if you want to read any periodicals but don’t wanna pay BOOM they have them. i’ve started going on mondays so i can read the sunday paper from the day before. i feel excellent in there. perfect balance of pretty, quiet, and exclusive.
Jan 29, 2024
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nypl’s main branch but ironically there aren’t really books for you to check out these days lol. a particular highlight is the reading room (pictured). there’s also a small (but very cool) museum exhibit that has stuff like the original winnie the pooh characters, lots of historical political pamphlets, some art, old religious / botanical / astronomical texts, first edition of a vindication of the rights of women, and more.
if you want to actually check out books, there’s another library building across the street lol, it is modern and kinda cool but not as beautiful
Mar 28, 2025
All of them but the Stephen A. Shwarzman building has a special place in my heart.
When I did my new york residency I spent so much time in the library. I was so broke and it was free and I could spend hours in the presence of other people without any obligation of actually socialising. Every trip I would go to the cafe and buy an espresso, plan my research in the cafe, wander around the gift shop planning what I would eventually buy to take people home, then go into a reading room to plan artworks and learn. The Treasures exhibition was so beautiful (I cried when I saw the real life Winnie the Pooh). Really feels like a peaceful place to sit and think or wander around. I genuinely think about how much I miss my trips there near daily.
Apr 3, 2024
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they’re constantly at risk of being defunded (particularly now in nyc), but they’re one of the last free third spaces left that’s accessible no matter the season (of life or the year). learn something and meet someone new (get to know your local librarian). public parks are also wonderful in the spring and summer, and always check if there’s any free museums near you
Jun 10, 2024
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if you think you’re the smartest person in your friend group you’re weird and annoying. the best friendships come out of mutual awe and respectability. be friends with people who make you want to know more things.
Jan 29, 2024
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i will never be in a situationship in the same way i will never be in the land of oz--it's just not real. i think using the word doesn't let you self-reflect in a way that is truly helpful. i was telling my friend about the awkwardness of seeing an exhook up in a relationship bc i thought we had mutual feelings and she said "oh your exsituationship" and i thought (for the first time) no, we had clear boundaries i just got my hopes up. my point is that instead of using situationship as a catch-all for not quite dating or wtv failed prospect, take it as a moment to reflect on what exactly went wrong. idk if this is profound or not
Jan 30, 2025
i’m averaging 14,000 steps a day for the past year, why? i walk everywhere. at one point i was averaging 16,000 (this is my flex). you get to explore a city and now when people ask me for directions i can actually tell them bc i’ve gotten really good at knowing where i am. if it takes less than an hour for me to walk from a to b, i will walk. if i have enough time i’ll walk 2+ hours just to see someone. just put on a good playlist/pod and go go go!!
Jan 29, 2024