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Accessorizing

I don’t have the energy to do my hair or makeup most days as I wallow in melancholy. People seem to compliment me a lot when I throw on a cute skirt and top, knee high socks for warmth, and then I just wear 2 sets of big earrings, a few necklaces, all my rings, maybe a cute belt and either a head scarf or hat that looks good.

@AveBean

Feb 4, 2025

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Wearing the most unflattering outfit i can come up with as a means of refocusing my self esteem on my personality, not my looks

If this gets attention maybe I’ll add on a little fit pic EDIT: added

@fakereceptionist

Apr 3, 2025

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layer and accessorize!

I go thru the same struggle and honestly just jazz up your regular outfits. And so what if you repeat outfits? You still look good regardless, that's why you wear those outfits so much. Wear short sleeve tshirts with long sleeves underneath. That can add so much. Try more unique pants like shades of brown, khaki, and green. Add a beanie or a baseball cap. Wear multiple necklaces. Wear bracelets. chunky earrings. Put some gloss or lipstick on. None of this matters if you aren't confident in yourself. Wear what makes you confident and comfortable <3

@myaa

Feb 3, 2025

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Talking about menstruation

after having an ovarian cyst for a while and finding out 4 months later that THATS why I was feeling deranged and horrible all the time I can’t get this thought (truth) out of my head — hormones are kind of everything! period cycles interest me so much now in a way they didn’t before bc I can clearly see the effects of them on our psyches/energy. for example I can always tell when a friend of mine is ovulating or PMSing. now I’m 24/7 yapping about menstruation/women’s health to all my friends.. or anyone who will listen really. mind-body connection fr fr OUT: thinking that asking about periods is rude; men Tiptoeing around the subject of periods; discounting what hormones do to our bodies and minds !!!!

@wrytings

Jan 23, 2024

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being an event head

I liked finding out that this is a word/thing cuz I totally relate. I just love (going to or hosting) events (apartment housewarmings, dj sets, dinners, breakfasts, movie nights, whatever it may be..). if it's a thing that's happening and I'm with/inviting friends, it's An Event idc!

@wrytings

Jan 22, 2024

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mending my relationship w weed

By just having some time to myself to smoke a j alone and vibe in my room. Have not done this in years, didn’t smoke for a while either (classic reasons, anxiety etc) but it’s been fun to see myself as more grown up since I last did this. kind of feels like convening with a past self and being like - yes life is weird but that means that anything goes and that’s great, I’m having fun 🫶🤷‍♀️

@wrytings

Jun 24, 2024