Whenever I am see a song or meme or show that reminds me of my friend, that becomes part of the core. For example, if me and my friend Michael love Ariana Grande, “yes, and” is Tichael coded
Deeply personal. My friend Alex’s mom calls him babish and one time his gf heard her say “Oh babish, we do luv to laff”. We latched on that and now it’s become our go-to greeting.