turns out if u ask for what u want nicely and directly ppl will give it to u
Jan 24, 2024

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Always ask. People want to say yes. And they will more than you would think.
Aug 28, 2024
Literally just be like “hey can i have some attention pls”, it pretty much always works in my experience. We all need and desire attention to some degree, there’s no shame in it. And openly asking for it is better than trying to implicitly get it by acting out, because then if you DON’T get it, it‘s really easy to attach it to your value instead of the fact that you didn’t -really- communicate your wants and needs.
Jan 27, 2024
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even if the answer is no, the answer might’ve been yes and it doesn’t hurt to ask every once in a while if you can do something or have something. i feel like as people, we don’t ask others for anything because we’re scared of rejection and the word no. but the best way to get over that fear is to hear it more
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u can't let just anyone in there
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