My friends wrote me into their set because they knew I would be down to swing at a fellow skinny dude for the bit. Getting punched otherwise is still fun but it’s safer to keep it planned and consensual.
Have a niche interest only your internet friends can relate to? Go meet up with them! Make that interest come to life chatting about it over a cup of coffee, or visit a place where that interest is the theme! It makes sense and is so much fun!