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my future very healthy boundaries

a great rec and subsequent convo from @JILLY a couple days ago really got me thinking about boundaries in my own life and that there are some major areas where things have broken down for me I can see relationships that are actually at risk of degrading—and maybe have already started to degrade in my heart—because I've failed to define and communicate healthy boundaries As a result of not doing the hard work of stating, counting the cost, and communicating about certain areas, I've both harmed myself and others So I'm recc-ing my future very healthy boundaries, with a lot of hope, and stating the intention to make some changes I'm going to start here: — Read Boundaries by Henry Cloud — Re-read Crucial Conversations — Make a list of boundaries that I need and communicate those to others as appropriate ...and other things that may pop up

@mattshawsome

4d ago

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Saying no

To plans, to people, to myself. Boundaries. Enforced.

@theaccidentalsexcoach

Feb 9, 2024

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Setting boundaries

It’s healthy and if people don’t respect them it’s their problem

@trev

Feb 19, 2024

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MY FINAL MEAL (STILL IN THE WORKS)

this list is so ridiculous but ask n u shall receive ⁃ sushi platter - shrimp tempura, spicy crunchy salmon, California, eel, Alaskan roll, a few special rolls + bunch of fatty salmon belly and side of extra eel sauce ⁃ Chicken katsu thin and crisp ⁃ Real ass Italian sub ⁃ Charcuterie board - mozzarella, manchego, Brie, Gouda, kerigold cheddar, drunken goat, goat cheese mixed with herbs, truffle cheese, Rembrandt, baguette slices, various herbed crackers, prosciutto, salami, mortadella, raspberries, strawberries, grapes, hot honey, chili crisp ⁃ frozen grapes covered in lime and sugar ⁃ Fried queso fresco ⁃ shack stack with everything + shake shack fries with extra cheese sauce on side + their chicken nuggets ⁃ Everything bagel toasted with lox tomato onion capers (from Absolute bagels) ⁃ Chicken + tofu pad Thai ⁃ Hella Crab Rangoon ⁃ Kombucha - (can’t even begin to list) ⁃ Seltzer (also many to list) ⁃ Oat milk cappuccino (I have a few places to get the right one) ⁃ Dirty chai from la cabra yesss ⁃ Matcha latte ⁃ Grilled pork Bánh mì + iced coffee + taro shake + strawberry shake from Ba Xuyên ⁃ Bone in chicken soup with extra broth ⁃ Chorizo + Al pastor tacos from truck + grilled onion on side + birria consumé soup (many great options really) ⁃ Greek ass salad ⁃ Caesar ass salad ⁃ Truffle gnocchi ⁃ Squid ink pasta yess ⁃ Wagu — give it to me however ⁃ Full fucking filet mignon steak cooked medium rare ⁃ Rabbit ragu ⁃ Peking duck ⁃ Fat tub of fresh quac with chips ⁃ Caribbean smoothie from don pepe ⁃ Chocolate lava cake ⁃ Fresh tollhouse chocolate chip cookies slightly underbaked ⁃ Dim sum ⁃ [N1] from Xi’an famous foods ⁃ Tub of banana bread pudding from magnolias bakery ⁃ Good ass slice of pecan pie ⁃ Assortment of pastries (fuck dont know where) ⁃ fresh sourdough bread sliced and lathered in Irish butter ⁃ Lemon bar ⁃ Pastry dough stuffed with savory tasty shit idk ⁃ Hot chocolate from city bakery omfg ⁃ Soul food platter (no explanation needed I want it all) ⁃ Double chocolate chip cookie from levain bakery ⁃ Peach Celsius ⁃ Masitas de Puerco, lime fries from Tepes kitchen ⁃ Cheese itz ⁃ Slice of chocolate pudding pie ⁃ fermented/pickled stuff ⁃ Thick Oreo milkshake with extra Oreos ⁃ Vaso de futa with the works ⁃ Greek ass gyro extra tzatziki on the side ⁃ Pita chips + stuffed grape leaves ⁃ artichoke dip + chip I could go on but alas.. Edit: maybe I should make a more specific one later. I started and could not stop. im a foodie-- sue me!

@bears

Dec 22, 2023

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proving yourself wrong

either a reminder to stop doubting your self, or a chance to sit down and be mf humble.

@bears

Dec 30, 2023

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whining

a great way to express your self, fully unfiltered, with no shame of how irrational you may be

@bears

Dec 30, 2023