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Taking your time to increase the quality of what you are doing will improve almost every activity or outcome.
Dec 26, 2023
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Jan 27, 2024
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rather than once every three business days for one hour stretches at a time. you’ll get better at your craft and see tangible results. half the time you end up running past 10 minutes bc you enjoyed yourself.
Mar 22, 2024
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you don't really have to be efficient all the time. time management is a great skill to have, but sometimes it feels way better to slow down and take longer to do simple activities. the next time you need to go to the grocery store for just a few things, try to turn that 20 min trip into 2 hours instead! it's way more fun that way
Jan 25, 2024
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This could be one of those rare things that – somehow – reminds you who you are, or who you used to be, those parts you thought were gone. (And trust me, there will be threads. So many threads.) I’ve learned, too, that there are whole stretches of life where you’ve been a stranger to yourself for so long that admitting it feels terrifying, insane even. But without that one thing to confess to, to get honest with – to untangle the mess of ordinary, maddening thoughts – you might never know what’s actually there, buried under the static.
Nov 14, 2024
I stumbled upon this relic in a nameless California town I forgot the name of, probably because thrift shops are like existential quicksand. It’s the perfect prop for those friend-argument moments, an almost absurd metaphor for dismantling our emotional walls between us. Plus, its sheer randomness guarantees everyone will question your sanity rather than the sentiment. 💯💯💯💯
Aug 3, 2024
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I recommend having a one on one with a close friend (or lover) at least once a month to help get out from under that clutter in your brain, renew your bonds, and heighten your emotional availability.
I know this will not work for everyone but it may help to pair it with an activity like going on a walk or having conversation structured with interpersonal games like We Aren’t Even Strangers (or if anyone else has any other recommendations it’s the platform to send in comment section below).
XO
Jan 29, 2024