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women watch each other; i watch my girlfriends, and iâm noticing a shift! the waning years of the trump era thrust usâthe ones who date men, anywayâinto serious relationships. we tweeted about our boyfriends and wore short dresses, espousing an ironic but undeniably effusive allegiance to some kind of nouveau #trad-itionalism. âfeministâ became a pejorative and we lost our shit when lana dropped ânorman fucking rockwell!â but now? everybodyâs breaking up and getting her own apartment! the girls are sleeping around and wearing interesting pants with the tabi boots they bought during the second term of the obama administration. theyâre speaking critically of âpornâ in hushed tones, or in lower-case letters on twitter. as a friend of mine recently muttered, eyebrow raised: âmaybe feminism made some pointsâ
Sep 16, 2021
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Historically, I have been too insecure to be a girl. That pressure of prettiness, of being delicate, of being desirable. I refused to engage. But this year something has shifted. I love cardigans, I want to talk about how I do my hair, I learned how to do make-up. Even though I'm not a model, I adore making myself feel pretty and sexy. I'm falling in love with the culture of feminism, and reclaiming mother earth as a mother. Girlhood is something so insanely precious and now, despite it being so hard, I am so unbelievably grateful I get to experience it. Want to merge my soul with every woman on the planet and scream OH HOW I LOVE BEING A WOMAN!
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đȘin my very unimportant opinion, too many adult women are obsessed with
âgirlhoodâ and embracing a âgirlyâ lifestyle and I canât for the life of me understand why they arenât embracing âwomanhood.â are adult women simply afraid of what leaving girlhood behind would mean for them? is it the prospect of the added responsibility that comes from being an adult that keeps them attached to their younger years? or is it just the aesthetics of girlhood that keep them in that mindset? yes when we were girls the world was so open, so new, so mysterious. why should that have to change entirely with age? some women may have more lived experiences and arenât as easily impressed or mystified by things as they were during girlhood, but i think thats all relative to perspective. there are still sensations, mysteries and first times after the age of 25 and even 45 and so on. shouldnât we experience it through the lens of women who have already passed the trials of girlhood? maybe this is just another millennial problem.
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đtold to me by a friend from high school who I had just reconnected with while hanging out with some other hometown friends over the holidays. I was kinda taken aback by how specific it was of her to say haha, kind of the long way of saying that iâm just one of the girlies. iâll take it tho đ
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đŻclub carry is a new york-based nightlife collective built around queer, femme djs of color. club carry manifests chaotic, intentional, ecstatic, decadent, and consummately safe spaces around their music: the hardest, fastest, loudest, cuntiest techno iâve ever heard in north america. founded by dj antpuke, with a fluid roster of regulars including ariel zetina, memphy, dangerous rose, and sauscha, club carry stands alone and apart within the bottle service hellscape of new york nightlife. trans girls and boysâor, as antpuke ava calls them, âdolls and ken dollsââget in free. the girls who go all night, and most of them do, wear wrap-around shield shades in anticipation of the sunrise
Sep 16, 2021
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đi think this person is a film student? iâm not sure! but their videos scratch a very specific itch from a rash i caught years ago on ebaumsworld.com. vernonator6597 splices, scores, and edits abject flights of fancy starring your meme queen favs: wendy williams confronts a murderous tulpa of herself, opening an unclosable void! the riverdale girls dance-off to no music, only the cracking of their bones! lorde detonates a bomb from her phone during a âGENIUSâ interview! as they say: describing memes is like dancing about writing about architecture during a performance at MoMA PS1. vernonator, whoever you are, letâs make a movie someday
Sep 16, 2021
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đthe pines have a dubious reputation: a strip-of-a-strip of hamptons-adjacent driftwood crawling with rich white gay weekend warriors desperate to party and play among the islandâs native pines and its unethically-imported bamboos. this is not untrue! but i spent a month there this summer, and i found myself amused and even inspired by the pinesâ inherent theatricality. every single houseâfor better or for worseâis a stage set for someoneâs idea of gay heaven. the itinerary of every chosen fam on their weekend or week-long excursion comprises a script for a queer friend group at its absolute best: âwe cook! we swim in the ocean at night! we take ghb and 2cb! we smoke cigarettes and discuss auto-fiction! we fight about auto-fiction!â the pines are possibilities
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