What pace do you like to take life and why? For example I feel like I like to take a slower pace throughout relationships, and social interactions because I feel like I need a really long time before I am ready for anything. like I really don't date i don't go out I just sit where I'm most comfortable and don't try to improve on any of the things I need to improve about myself socially. I would say I am faster when it comes to things like reading or trying to achieve my goals. But for the most part I am a snail in most things in my life.