love my friends to death but most of them are not people i can just hit up on a whim to hang with. they’re busy people and are almost always unavailable unless we have a pre-scheduled hang. (i am not, i work from home and my bf works evenings so im basically free every night). it’s a beautiful sunny day today and literally all i wanna do is grab an after-work beer with a friend and it feels like i literally have to beg people. no one is available. i feel desperate even asking sometimes bc i’m always getting rejected. is this just what being 28 is?? do i just need to start planning all my hangs in advance?? maybe i just need to meet new people? advice welcome!