what if im 23 (almost) and ive never had a situationship, relationship, fling, emotionally charged thing or anything past a hookup, one sided crush or purely attraction based hookup scheme where we hook up 4 times and then they go away for a woman better for them. im getting kinda scared that im aging out of the dating system and also its been established in my life that truly no one has ever had a crush on me (can ask reputable sources). i go to therapy and make do with my day and have hobbies and awesome friends, but im scared i lack something innate to make me loveable, likeable and desirable. everyone says its a waiting game and im just being crazy but its all off and im starting to feel like its a sign. like omg what do i do!!! and also how ashamed of myself do I need to be....#tea #help #scared