And what are the work arounds I know this is The Discourse rn but my friends and I havebeen complaining for a year like what’s going on like Unfortunately to generalize the women I know are smart, have goals, good friends, smart, beautiful, emotionally developed The men idk?? Emotionally inept? Stuck in cliches like I don’t have my shit together or I’m not looking for anything serious WHILE doing everything that at least looks like a steady thing AND just not even meeting men organically in the world have we all gotten so fed up that the vibe we’re putting out just sucks ass